This is not likely a Joomla51 template issue but I don't know where else to ask...Thanks in advance.

Multiple spam emails (200 -300 per day) is being sent from a Joomla site I maintain, alamedadoula.com.
Using Joomla 3.9.13, J51_Resonate template.

When I set Global Config>Server>Mail Settings>Send Mail to NO the spam email is not sent.
When I set it ON I get the spam.
ReturnPath: zoey@alamedadoula.com
To: keith@keithvb.com (I'm the only user - super admin)

I need it turned on so that the online forms can function.

Email source is below:
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example of spam email
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Return-Path: <zoey@alamedadoula.com>
Received: from ehub54.webhostinghub.com
by ehub54.webhostinghub.com with LMTP
id CJjJIq5u9F2PAgAAidEfhQ
(envelope-from <zoey@alamedadoula.com>; Sat, 14 Dec 2019 00:10:06 -0500
Return-path: <zoey@alamedadoula.com>
Envelope-to: keith@keithvb.com
Delivery-date: Sat, 14 Dec 2019 00:10:06 -0500
Received: from [::1] (port=46506 helo=alamedadoula.com)
by ehub54.webhostinghub.com with esmtp (Exim 4.92)
(envelope-from <zoey@alamedadoula.com>
id 1ifzgs-000Amp-Gk
for keith@keithvb.com; Sat, 14 Dec 2019 00:10:06 -0500
Date: Sat, 14 Dec 2019 05:10:06 +0000
To: keith@keithvb.com
From: Alameda Doula <zoey@alamedadoula.com>
Reply-To: owegsmuaux <kanninz@live.com.au>
Subject: Alameda Doula: You make me smile. That's it.
Message-ID: <96978089481a0955ca7a4d1909ea0c5b@alamedadoula.com>
MIME-Version: 1.0
Content-Type: text/plain; charset=utf-8
Content-Transfer-Encoding: 8bit

This is an enquiry email via http://alamedadoula.com/ from:
owegsmuaux <kanninz@live.com.au>

It’s time to find a steady girlfriend. A lot of single ladies are waiting here - http://kjjv.host
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thanks,
Keith